Miss Amazon:
I have a very full life and love all aspects of it with the exception of romance. I would love to find a boyfriend but all I seem to meet is "straight" guys who want booty calls. I always end up being the other "woman" and I just end up feeling used when they leave after they are done. What can I do to meet me who will want to date me not just breed me?

Suffering in Spokane.

Well Pudding....sometimes we ask questions just to verify what we know to be the right answer. If a straight guy wants to have a relationship he will have it with a woman or come out. Some men will stay on the DL indefinitely in order to keep their relationships and self concept intact. Miss Amazon thinks you are attracted to these men because they are safe...they will not ask you for anything beyond sex so you have no chance of being hurt...in theory...but as you can testify it hurts when someone only wants you for sex. The time has come my dear pudding to leave the booty calls behind and get involved in places where you can meet single gay men. We have a wonderful GLBT center on Washington. A number of drinking establishments if that is something you do and numerous social organizations in town that would love to have you volunteer. Please know that you are not alone...most gay men go through the stage that you are in and come out the other side better for it. Good luck Suffering and remember....Miss Amazon loves YOU and all you do!!